I’m so glad that Taylor’s music video has created discourse around the subject of grooming. Just as you said, it is more pervasive than people realize. Nobody said a damn thing about a power imbalance in 2012 when a twenty year old Swift was photographed with thirty year old Jake. Isn’t it interesting that she was the one who was slandered in the media ??

Excellent article! Thank you for sharing your story 💙